Ok so after a bad breakup, I got hurt really bad,
Some how I am FRIENDS with the one that ripped my heart out and threw it in a shredder. I just can not hate any one, that I once loved, I guess it is a curse that I have.
I am just to good hearted.
I wish nothing but happiness for my exes. But still, I'm not interested in going on fb to see pics of wonderful holidays, birthdays, etc. But, that's just me, for my own sanity.
My last ex and I cared deeply for each other, but living together turned us into people that neither of us wanted to be.
After over 5 yrs we parted as friends.
It DOES make it harder to move on. We don't share any details of our dating life. I don't want to know any who's, what's, when's, how's, where's.
I know of exes who then double date and socialize with the new partners. To each their own, but I don't know if I can ever be that mature.
Bottom line is that we each have to do whatever best allows us to heal and move on.
I wish nothing but happiness for my exes. But still, I'm not interested in going on fb to see pics of wonderful holidays, birthdays, etc. But, that's just me, for my own sanity.